Let’s try to be good human beings, without discriminating against each other on the basis of caste and religion, and pray together to that one God, says DR PUSHPA CHATURVEDI
What’s in a name? That which we call a rose, by any other name would smell as sweet,” said Juliet in Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. We all have read about the romance between Juliet and Romeo. As Romeo belonged to a rival family from Montague, that is what came in the way of their union. It’s then that Juliet said that his name meant nothing, because for her, even if his name was different, he would still be the same beautiful young man she loved.
I am sure you all will agree that it’s never the name which defines inner beauty, character, personality, morality and spirituality of a person ― it’s the attitude, thoughts, feelings, actions and behaviour which defines a person.
Discriminating by name, caste, religion, or nationality or lineage is unjustified, unfair and inhuman. God is one is the eternal truth voiced in the Vedas. God is one but has different names in different religions.
It’s the human-made religions which have given God different names. For Hindus, He is Brahman, for Sikhs He is Wahe Guru, for Muslims He is Allah, for Christians He is Lord Jesus, while Jews refer to God as HaShem.
It doesn’t really matter what name you use to pray to Him, as ultimately your prayer will end up at the same address. The one God will always get your message, no matter what religion you belong to.
God will be really happy ― only if we humans live with the belief that it’s not about the name we worship, but it’s all about that One God we invoke by different names and in different ways and through different rituals.
By evolving as humans and developing the ability to appreciate spiritual values, beliefs and practices different from our own, we will understand each other much better, be more tolerant of each others’ religions, and be able to practise true humanity.
Today we need to understand that by fighting over chants of Jai Shree Ram or Allah, we are demeaning the very oneness of God to whom we all pray to by using different names. Indeed, what’s in a name when God is one?
This does not mean we should do away with our name. Our name is our identity, but we should never make it a fetish or a prestige issue. There is, of course, a positive side to a name. For instance, while naming a child, many choose a spiritual or religious name for their child. Kundalini Yoga says that “a spiritual name is the designated destiny that becomes your identity on the Earth.”
The sound of a person’s name carries an energy with it. It is believed that this energy helps manifest the designated destiny that becomes one’s identity. But let’s remember that nothing is that simple and automatic, because a lot depends on one’s upbringing, thinking and actions; the desire and change to improve daily; to live as a good human being and ooze positive energy ― whatever our name may be.
While contemplating on ‘Whats in a name?’ I am reminded of the name Ashtavakra. Ashta means eight, Vakra means bend or deformity. Ashtavakra was a very ancient Vedic sage dating back to 7,000 years ago.
Ashtavakra meant “crooked in eight places” and referred to his physical deformity at birth. It is said that his father, a great scholar, cursed him to be born severely deformed, while he was still in the womb, because the foetal Ashtavakra corrected his father’s recitation of the Vedas in front of his disciples.
Despite being named as crookedly bent at eight places, he wrote the Ashtavakra Gita, an enriching dialogue between himself and King Janaka in which he showed the king the way to enlightenment by his teachings on the nature of the soul, reality, and bondage, based on non-dualistic philosophy and on the complete unreality of the external world and the absolute oneness of existence.
As I was pondering on the phrase ‘What’s in a name?’ on my morning walk, it started to rain. My eyes fell on the weeping willow tree on my path. I took shelter from the rain under it and wondered why this name for such a beautiful, graceful tree, whose green branches, which are so full of life, seem to bend in humility.
In a while, I saw tear-like drops drip from its branches as it rained. It’s then that I realised that it’s these tear-like drops, which were trickling and mingling with the earth, and hence it’s name weeping willow. Soon it became a smiling, talking tree and started talking to me.
On my morning walk, I heard the weeping willow talk.
“What’s in a name?” it asked, innocently.
“Though you’ve named me the weeping willow tree
No, I don’t weep as you folks think of me
I greet you every day with a smile and a swing
as I bow, nod and sway in this cold, blowing wind.”
I looked up at its humble ways,
saw each branch reach out with open arms and divine play,
to hug and be hugged each day
As the clouds start to pour, rain pelts the drooping willow
tear-like drops from long slender leaves kiss the lush green grass pillow
The willow stands tall and firm, as it’s nodding green branches reconfirm
like a beacon of strength and stability, a symbol of life and fertility
The weeping willow does not weep, even as its branches seem to sweep
It’s an epitome of humility and endurance
its drooping shoulders are its life assurance
Names surely give us a sense of identity
which is important for each one of us
but this will not change the reality
We must remember that what we become ultimately
depends on our humanity and spirituality
We all need love and compassion for each other
So let’s try and live up to be good human beings
without discriminating against each other
by name, caste and religion
and stop fighting about the different names
we use to pray to that one God.
So, have you analysed the meaning of your name? Are you living upto its meaning? Or is your name just a name to identify you.
Dr Pushpa Chaturvedi, a paediatrician with over 50 years’ experience, is an educationist and researcher, with over 100 research publications, mainly on social paediatrics in renowned medical journals. Ex-Professor and Head of Department of Paediatrics, MGIMS Sevagram, Wardha, she is a thinker, writer, poet, artist and a spiritual blogger with over 500 blogs to her credit. Dr Chaturvedi is also a keen traveller, music and nature lover.
“One God different names”.
This as such is the essence of the Advaita or Non-dualistic understanding of Vedanta, the perennial philosophy which remains valid at all age and all times. In the sense of ‘Oneness’ lies the ultimate goodness of man so much so that in life and living one radiates a vibe of love for everyone and everything around, free of frictions & free of distress.
So, the making of a good man is as such the ultimate aim of education for a orderly life and perfect social order, no one can deny.
The achievement of goodness” is the essence of all the teachings, advices and discourses of sages down the ages. How difficult is it to impart and yet how easy it is to comprehend! Gurudev Rabindra Nath Tagore once said:
“Every child comes with the message that God’s faith in man is not yet over.”
Deep within every child remains a hidden talent that can be bloomed with systematic training and positive feedbacks. This latent talent is the realm of goodness for the child which can grow in full flow with a little care by the Teachers and Parents.
The hidden talent of a person comes out spontaneously with out much effort and in nurturing it, honing it and helping in the actualisation of it only we can make a child a full functioning human being so that he/she blooms to full and shares the fragrance to the best.
Abraham Maslow has very beautifully defined the realm of Spontaneity in these words :
“When we are fully spontaneous, our capacities adapt to the situations most perfectly,Quickly, effortlessly and change flexibly as the situation changes…as water flows in to cracks and contours.”
In fact, Full-Spontaneity” is the hallmark of a good as well as happy man. Being such, one becomes a representing character of universality & humanity like that “weeping willow tree”, transcending the narrow boundaries of man made and man tagged caste, religion, faith, belief, name and fame.
Thanks Pushpa ji, for such an inspiring post.
Baturam Nayak
Just loved going through your thoughts ..was reminded of the poem of Abou Bin Adhem
The poem Abou ben adhem is written by Leigh hunt. This poem shows how Abou was able to win the love of God through the love of his fellow-men; Love of man is the true love of god. It is the best way to please god and win his love if we love our fellow human beings God will love us
It’s such a beautiful poem where it’s all about being good and angelic to our fellowmen.
Thank you so much, ?
So much packed so nicely Ma’am and you blend prose, poetry and painting so elegantly. Love it and keep getting.