What has peace got to do with happiness? The connection is like that between life and living. For, peace makes life worth living, and paves the way to happiness. Peace and happiness are linked so inextricably that there’s no happiness without peace.
What comes first: peace or happiness? Could you be at peace if you’re not happy? The answer to these questions depends on your idea of happiness―on whether you get happiness from external factors or from within.
In the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna tells Arjuna that no man can know happiness without peace. But, to experience peace, we need to prepare ourselves to receive it; so in a way we are responsible for making peace and happiness happen. For peace and happiness to last, both ought to spring from within, regardless of any turmoil or otherwise that is happening outside.
The more you internalise your feelings of peace and happiness, the more the chances are of your reaching blissful heights. Once you are able to source peace and happiness from within, you can transcend external vicissitudes to remain ever-happy and blissful.
Reverend Ernest A Fitzgerald described happiness as a ‘deep sense of inner peace’ that comes when you believe that you are ‘making a difference for good in the world’. Thomas Jefferson, former US president, said that, “it is neither wealth nor splendour, but tranquillity and occupation that give happiness.”
From a Buddhist perspective, too, one can learn that people inflict pain on others in the selfish pursuit of their happiness or satisfaction. “Yet, true happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, which in turn must be achieved through the cultivation of altruism, of love and compassion, and elimination of ignorance, selfishness, and greed”, in the words of the Dalai Lama. The Buddha said that to “enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one’s family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one’s own mind.”
Peace is a recurring prayer in Holy Mass celebrated by Christians. The priest chants, ‘Peace be with you’ and the congregation replies, ‘With you also’. The congregation offers each other ‘The Sign of Peace’. The mass ends with a blessing by the priest, ‘Go in peace, the mass is ended’.
What, then, happens to the non-believer? Is he doomed to unhappiness? It would be uncharitable to draw such a conclusion. For, there’s peace in the smile of a child; there’s peace in the tender touch of one’s mother; and it’s got nothing to do with God or religion.
Thich Nhat Hanh, the Vietnamese Buddhist monk says that, “If in our daily life we can smile, if we can be peaceful and happy, not only we, but everyone will profit from it. This is the most basic kind of peace work.” Again, no religious strings attached to peace.
The Vedic idea of peace includes peace in all areas of life―psychological, social and environmental. The Yajur Veda declares: “Let there be peace in heaven, Let there be peace in the atmosphere, Let there be Peace on Earth…May the waters and medical herbs bring peace, May the trees give peace to all beings, May all the gods be peaceful, May the Vedas spread peace everywhere, May all other objects everywhere give us peace, And may that peace come to us and remain with us, forever.”
Oswald Pereira, a senior journalist, has also written eight books, including The Newsroom Mafia, Chaddi Buddies, The Krishna-Christ Connexion and Crime Patrol: The Most Thrilling Stories. Oswald is a disciple of Paramhansa Yogananda, and practises Kriya Yoga.
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Beautiful article! Peace comes with contentment with what we have. Being happy is state of mind where in there no room for negativity or selfishness.
Thank you, Nita. I agree peace comes with contentment and being happy with what we have. Yes, happiness, indeed, is a state of mind and doesn’t really depend on external factors or even with what’s happening outside. We need to keep ourselves detached and take ups and downs in our stride, as part of life.
Lovely read.
If we live peacefully there will be no conflicts and thus no wars and clashes .
To be peaceful we need to be happy . You have rightly said that unhappy people cannot talk of peace. Along with contentment there has to be enthusiasm in life , a job which we enjoy and a sense of achievement of doing something worthwhile. That automatically brings contentment . Harmony in nature will be acquired by a balanced life style !
Agree Seema,Conflicts and wars are often engineered by unhappy rulers, sometimes to divert attention from real problems. Indeed, true peace and happiness can be found by living in harmony with nature.
Beautifully written….
For me peace is a place of harmony, internally and externally.