We seem to live on a mental diet of worries, tensions and anxiety. The writers teach us the benefits of calm, regular breathing and how this simple technique always relaxes the mind
Years ago, when we were first starting our Ananda community in California, we had very little money, and we decided to start a little business making incense as a way to provide an income for our members.
With long hours and countless details vying for our attention, it was difficult to calm our mind and stay focussed in the present. A thousand thoughts kept calling out, “What about me? I’m important, too!” In whatever situation, worries seem to be our entire mental diet.
As one of us sat trying to meditate one day, an image came powerfully to mind. “Time is like a river on which you are floating. You can never occupy more than one place at any moment. Just focus your whole attention on where you are right now, and let the river take care of itself.”
That image had an uncanny power to help stay focussed.
Whenever you find your attention wandering to worries, visualise the river and you will find that it helps you to come back to your centre.
Meditation can help us centre our attention, but we must be deeply relaxed before its effects can take hold. There exists a direct link between breath and mind. The science of controlling the mind through breathing techniques is one of India’s great gifts to the world.
You’ve probably noticed that whenever you attempt a task that requires deep concentration, such as threading a needle, your breathing automatically slows, or even stops.
The next time your mind tries to run away from you, try breathing your way to calmness.
A fellow disciple was in charge of training recruits for the San Francisco police department. A technique that he taught the rookies was to control their breathing before they attempted to take control of a tense situation. He demonstrated the importance of breath-control with the following true story: During a drug raid, he chased a man up a stairway in a darkened building. At the top of the stairs, he turned and found the suspect pointing a shotgun at his chest. The man was high on drugs and he knew that one false move could be fatal.
While gazing into the man’s eyes, he began breathing deeply while affirming mentally, “Be calm, be centred.” After a few moments, he slowly held out his hand and asked the man to give him the gun. The man’s shoulders slumped as the tension went out of him, and he surrendered without violence.
There are many breathing techniques that can help us relax the mind. For example, ‘regular breathing’ is extremely helpful at the start of a meditation. Simply inhale slowly, counting to twelve. Hold the breath for the same number of counts while concentrating with deep calmness at the point between the eyebrows. Then slowly exhale for the same twelve counts. Do six to nine rounds as you start to meditate. You can increase or decrease the count according to your capacity, but keep inhalation, retention, and exhalation equal.
Regular breathing can help us greatly in a variety of situations. Whenever you are feeling stressed and nervous, do a few rounds of regular breathing―I am sure you’ll notice an immediate calming influence. You can rarely think yourself out of a negative or anxious state, but you can often breathe yourself out of it.
Nayaswamis Jyotish and Devi are spiritual directors of Ananda Sangha Worldwide. Ananda Sangha was founded in 1968 by a direct disciple of Paramhansa Yoganandaji, Swami Kriyananda
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